I love germs. Especially when bfing. A few germs are good.

I prefer using my finger to using a dummy.

I want to wallop my mother when she sticks her fingers in the mouths of babies when she has been told not to.

It is about personal space. Babies put things in their mouths. You don't stuff them in there. Babies can't walk away or ask you to step back. To me, it's akin to those "pass the newborn" parties grandparents love and tell us we're wrong to not want. And to continue after a "no" from a parent is wrong and rude.