hun. We were grumpy today also lol. Must've been the day... get the cobwebs all out. Ok... when Oskar tells me he doesn't want me to do something and it's me doing something for someone I just tell him that it's nice to share and sometimes he might need to share his mummy too. Or another one is sometimes mummy needs to do some things for other people. I know this is hugely different for you guys as you are actually going to be in another place and country. Might help a little though? Maybe you could draw a picture for her of her helping daddy to look after little Miss E whilst you are helping some other people? Would that help? Make her feel like she has a special task to do and that daddy really needs her to help him? She will be ok hun, she will. I think it's going to be harder on you than her.