Thanks BAL yep, they have had the full scabies treatment, my Mum and Aunt make sure of it. And yep, they have had quite a few ACAT assessments too (each time they get out of hospital), but all they do is provide more in-home help because my grandparents don’t want to move. But it’s not enough, they need to be in fully supported care. And as for the RTA my grandfather was able to get his driving licence back so many times when he was clearly unable to physically drive as well as clearly suffering from dementia. But I don’t want to beat up, hospitals or aged care services, I think they great, really I do, it’s just my grandparents seem to have slipped through the gap on this occasion. Probably because they have hit a sweet spot between pleading and bluffing to get what they want, to stay in their home.

Thanks Trill and MN too.