So I'm thinking after reading all your responses that it might just be a stage then. That would be good!

Nice to know we are not alone with this battle but a big boo hoo that others understand my pain!

Cheezel - had to LOL at your comment about how you deal with the situation depending on your mood cause that's exactly what I'm doing lately! If I've had a rough day or if DH is in my bad books then he can just deal with it! Hence why he wore DD's projectile vomit just a few months ago

Nae - quietly jealous that your DD will only go to your DH at night! How did you wangle that?!

Krysalyss & NW3 - we had the chat to her tonight actually and told her that Daddy may be the one to see her if she wakes at night and that would be A-OK. She agreed with us so hopefully she did actually understand. Good suggestion!

Thanks for all your replies, fingers crossed she shares the 'overnight love' with DH soon!