I agree, he's probably woken up. The soft feeling happened for me too, I'd only get hard boobs if DD missed a feed. Try not to compare your two experiences; one was an emergency csection preterm with pumping (it's more difficult to maintain a supply while pumping), this time it's a vaginal birth at term with a baby to your breast Are you on some iron now? If you want I could post you things that you need, maybe an iron supp and some BF tea. Let me know.