Thanks guys! I feel spesh that you're all encouraging me!

on the 'yay' side, I managed to get him to sleep tonight - but DH was home (but out of sight in another room) so I'm thinking maybe it's a separation anxiety thing with DH?? He knew he was home, so he could relax? Maybe??

It did take a while, but it was pretty low-fuss really. Made me feel all warm & fuzzy though!

Thanks again - and I'd still like to hear advice if you have it!