thread: He won't wear a hat!

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jul 2005
    Sydney
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    You could have an activity set up outside (water play, for eg) and then persist in putting his hat back on if he takes it off. If he's distracted he might be less interested in removing the hat and a firm "We have to wear hats outside" is enough.

    Just a thought - do you and DH wear hats outside as well? Because if he's seeing DH walk around outside without a hat then it's going to be harder to get him to leave his own on.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2005
    In the middle of nowhere
    9,362

    yep everything said above.

    I don't argue, i just put it back on. It is a pain for a bit but they get the idea. Praise is good too. I do know how frustrating it is though.
    I wear my hat too and I've even been successful in getting DH to wear his.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    Adelaide, SA
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    As everyone else has said, persistance really is the key. It pays off in the end

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    ...not far enough away :)
    1,413

    I agree, I just kept putting DS1 hat back on, over and over. We are in QLD also & before that the very hot Pilbara in WA....a hat is a must. Especially since mummy burns to a crisp in seconds. I also choose better times of the day for when the hat is off, or pick shady areas to play. I always ensure the clam shell is moved to the shade etc & we have shade sail over our sand pit. DS1 figured it out eventually that it had to be left on & then when we got to 'no hat no play' it always stayed on. Now he is great at keeping it on. DS2 is almost 1 and he is terrible now also, so we start again.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Brisbane
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    Thanks so much for the advice, ladies. It is good to know that there are others out there struggling with the same issue (DS is the only one out of his friends who refuses to wear a hat and it often makes things difficult at Mums group, especially if we all spend a fair bit of time outside). I told DH that he needs to wear a hat too and we plan on leaving them at the back door and never going out into the garden without putting it on. Hopefully DS will catch on. Tomorrow is the day we start the hat challenge. I am trying to muster all the determination to win this battle. Thanks you all again for taking the time to reply.

  6. #6
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    We always wear hats outside too, and I think that's helped a lot.
    DS loves his hat, even insists on wearing inside a lot of the time

  7. #7
    BellyBelly Member

    Nov 2009
    Qld
    367

    Both mine done the same, both just had to keep putting it on over and over, didn't say nothing except, you have to wear you hat and didn't make a huge fuss over it. Learnt not to fuss to much with my niece who then thought it a hilarious game to play.

    While they were anti-hat though I did completely sunblock their head, straight through the hair to the scalp, it was nasty getting it in the hair but at least they were protected. With DD2 I bought a hat that had a sewn in chin strap, then I sewed in one at the back as well, so either way she pulled it got stuck, sometimes she would get it off other times she would give up. Now she wears it most of the time, but still pulls it off occasionally.