Thanks so much girls!. We had a totally nightmare day today ..tried a trip to my grandmas which is about 1.5hour drive up the coast!. Mmmmmm her in the back seat me on the freeway ....needless to say after 45mins of hysterical crying and me knowing that my concentration was not what it should be at 110kms per hour I turned around and headed for home!...she slept for 30mins then started crying hysterically again. So all up she probably spent about 1hour crying hysterically with me not really being able to reassure her except with words. Man did I feel like the worst mum in the world .....I still have knots in my tummy and we got home 6hours ago!......anyway .......needless to say she has been on my hip since then hehe