Oh Ladies I wish could help but my 2.5yr old sleeps on a matrass on the floor next to my DH because I just didn't have any answers so ended up co-sleeping with him because I just had no other option. We slept with DS throughout my whole pregnancy with DS#2 and some nights I ended up in the spare bed because I just couldn't stand it... I will certainly be keeping an eye on this thread... Good Luck xxoo