That health nurse sounds like an idiot babe, you're doing a great job. And I've actually heard the opposite about babies waking in the night - apparently they're smarter because they get more stimulation. :P

If you're happy with the way things are going, then why change them? My DD has gone from being around the 75th percentile to just over the 10th and she's still happy, healthy and meeting all of her milestones - and she wakes 2 hourly overnight most nights.

If it ain't broke, don't fix it. And those charts are a bit outdated anyway (and based on FF babies) - there are new charts on the WHO website which are for breast fed babies and plotting my DD on there, it's all good.

Hugs lady, you're doing great

Just realised you wanted some advice on how to wean - the ABA website has some wonderful information on there.