Oh wow, what a day for you both!!
It sounds like she was totally over tired and over stimulated. It's so hard to settle bubs once that happens. Do you have a sling to carry her in? Maybe if you go for a walk with her in it, she will go off to nigh nighs?? Or does she sleep in the car? Maybe go for a drive with her? Or do you mind you laying down with her and feed her to sleep? I hope she nods off for you soon and it's a good night!