awww sweet sounds hard VERY hard. I understand what ur saying about the fact you feel for your son cause it seems now he may be missing out. Its not fair! Really your son has you and if his father doesnt want to be there for him its the father that's the one missing out as your son has very loving mother that cares and worries for him. . Such a shame tho as when the father regrets it... it could be to late. Lets just hope that with his new child, that triggers deep thought and nothing i just said comes to past as he realizes he has been pulling away and that just simply is not fair.