Well i'm not sure if anyone else's toddler is like this but i have no idea what to do here! Every single time Lily does something she is not meant to, we say no. But she ignores us completely. She won't even look at us, just comtinues with what she's doing. No matter what tone we use, we get no response from her. But there is absolutely nothing wrong with her hearing. We end up taking her away from what it is that she's doing and then she goes completely mental with a huge tantrum. After that's over, she'll try to go back to doing the wrong thign again. Sometimes she even laughs when we say no. It's so very frustrating. I'm not sure what to do? Also with the trantums, these have been going on since before she was 1 and they are just getting worse and worse. She screams all the time, we say no, she gets louder, we ignore it and she just continues, we can't win! During nappy changing she will toss and turn and try to get up(sometimes successfully) and run away laughing. This is especially not good when she's just done a poo! I don't like to hold her down incase i hurt her but even if i try she is just so very strong. Oh and the kicking! My god that hurts. But get this, she is a total angel with anyone except JAcob and I. With anyone else, even a stragner, she will be on her best behavour and if someone says no, she will obay immediatly. But with us, it's an entirely different story. I can't even tell people how she is like with us anymore because she makes a liar out of me around them! What do i do? It's driving both of us bonkers. I so don't want this happening when bub comes along!