I'm the same too charly. We agreed on two and in some ways I know that's right for us due to our age and other factors. And DH definitely doesn't want more. But part of me will always long for another I think. To a certain extent I think that's inevitable. I guess the thing is you have to decide whether you can live without regret if you don't have another - and I mean real regret, not pangs when you see a nb bubba. That should help make it clearer. I also try to look at the positives of just 2.

I do know that if we had started younger we most likely would have had more. So I guess that's something people should consider if they delay to save money first or whatever, sometimes that does limit your options.