problem is though she doesnt have set feeds. she usually just climbs up whenever she wants. its all very random. maybe i will try and only let her have some at set times and then start dropping those out one by one. she seriously doesnt do it for any nutrients or drink/feed she does it for comfort and a cuddle (apart from over night she does it to get back to sleep). she has a cup of milk at lunch usually but doesnt love it but downs a bottle of cows milk before bed. i think it is just a habit for the both of us.
thanks for your input.