EJ I could have written that post a few months ago (Mine are now 4.5 yrs, 3 yrs and nearly 5 months). But remember your bub is 11 weeks old, not 11 months! She is still getting used to life outside the womb and you are still exhausted. Getting to bed as early as you can, letting things "slide" (whether its the home-made dinners or housework or mini maestros for a term), and just "breathing" every now and then will all help. But nothing helps like time. You'll all settle into a groove son enough. Not the same one you were in before DD arrived, but a groove of your own which suits all of you. Remember this will pass - don't try to do it all at once....