Kell my friend. but I still feed Nate and nurse him to sleep....

Darc however I had more success with. She used to take over an hour. I went from laying to sitting (angled so she couldn't get out) and patting, to sitting holding her hand, to sitting on the floor holding her hand, to sitting on the floor to sitting at the door....I spent many many hours with a book ignoring her fussing, or gentle breathing exercises, or writing my shopping lists. It too a long time, but it worked. Now I say go to bed...and she does.