how safe are babies and family dogs.

[KimB]

My 2 dogs I got when they were pups and my kids were babies so they grew up together. They are used to kids crawling all over them, poking ears, eyes and pulling tongues lol but now that they are getting older I'm a bit more watchful, especially of the male. He can be a bit grumpy. Usually he just moves away but if I see the girls going for him again I tell them off. The female (shepherd X kelpie) is so placid still that I don't worry about her at all. I do have to stop my girls from just going up to other people's dogs though as they are so used to ours being friendly.

[~Hestia~]

I grew up alongside a rottweiler & used to ride her, sleep on her, do anything to her. She slept under our cots, she was a beautiful dog! Have had dogs all my life & have never been injured or bitten.
But my personal opinion is no dog is safe. Our dog who wouldn't hurt a fly - but I would never leave DS with him alone. I don't let DS near the dog's face & I never let him anywhere near him when he is eating/has a bone.

[Ryatha]

I grew up with dogs and think that supervised play is ok in our house. DH didn't grow up with dogs and it took a long time for him to agree to get one. But when he saw our friends dogs play with DD1 (rottie and greyhound ) they were so good with her we got a dog too - a daschound! Daisy the Daschound is very good with the baby and with kids but is a bit wary and jelous of my attention. So she gets kicked outside when we have a lot of kids around, but she's inside if only a few a here.

[Roryrory]

It's interesting how so many of us grew up with lovable dogs but still wouldn't trust one with our kids. Not a criticism, just and observation - you'd think us dog-riding ear-pullers would be happy to leave kids with dogs.

[Saffi]

I agree that you can never trust a dog 100%, but I think there is a lot you can do to make your kids pet aware. My dogs have always been supervised in their interactions with our kids. We have also ensured that our kids have a healthy respect for the dogs. Knowing how to pat them, keeping away from dogs when they are eating etc. I could leave the babies on their rugs when I left the room because I knew the dogs would always follow me LOL.

[~Hestia~]

It's interesting how so many of us grew up with lovable dogs but still wouldn't trust one with our kids. Not a criticism, just and observation - you'd think us dog-riding ear-pullers would be happy to leave kids with dogs.

Yeah that is interesting!

[misty]

you can trust dogs as much as you can trust a baby or child. Which is to say not at all. Kids may be angels 90% of the time, but they can be unpredictable - they can pull hair, bite, poke eyes at the drop of a hat (sometimes without meaning too). The same goes for animals. They may be most placid, children loving, proctectors of your children, but they may do the unpredictable, it may not even be their fault. The dog might have been hurt by the child, they may be getting old and dementia is setting in, they may have a toothache you are unaware of, they may just be playing and simplly be too rough.

I have a 4yr old labrador who is the best dog you will ever find for children. My 2.5yr old and my 4.5yr old are allowed to play outside unsupervised with her - She does not bite even when her hair is being pulled, and she is a very obedient dog. Having said that we have had tears a few times simply because she is so much bigger then the kids and knocks them over when she is too excited. The lab is not allowed anywhere near the baby unsupervised.

We now have a beagle who also seems to be great with kids, however only the 4.5yr old is allowed outside with her unsupervised until she is a bit older - but even then I have raced outside a feww times to tears, because the dog is too excited and jumping on my DD. The dog is just over 1yr old and still in the puppy stage - as such she sometimes 'nips' as part of play. The 2.5 yr old is allowed supervised play with her. The beagle is only allowed near the baby if the baby is being held by an adult. (the dog is much to excitable).

So it really does depend on the dog and the children, but even then an adult should never be out of ear shot.