thread: I am so tired of this, ds just doesn't get enough sleep during the day!!!!!!

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  1. #1
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    Ladies, thanks so much for your replies, I will certainly try a few different things!

    Bug'sMum, I have tried stretching out his late morning nap but the problem is that if he doesn't go down when he's really tired he just comes alive and gets really overtired in the end and quite often misses out on his day sleep altogether! It's just so annoying! I try and make sure he gets his late morning sleep at home, but if we're out in the morning I always try and rush back home by about 11 as he often falls asleep in the car on the way back home, and because most of the time we don't have to drive far & we're home fairly quickly, when I'm taking him out of the car he wakes up and then comes alive and refuses to sleep! My DF says don't worry if he only sleeps for 10-20 minutes but that's no where enough for him especially if he doesn't get that second nap in the afternoon. I have tried putting him in his cot when the rubbing of the eyes, pulling the blankie to his face, grabbing at his ears happen, but he will only stay there for 10 minutes tops and then starts whingeing to take him out!

    Efjay, you're scaring me!!!!! lol

    Livinthedream, it sounds like you have a good routine with your little one, I just don't think DS knows what 'quiet time' means! He's always full of beans, lol. Always on the go. Because we've had the best weather over the last couple of weeks, DF took him out heaps in the back yard, riding his car, tricycle, swing etc, and you'd think all this fresh air would make him tired! Not. Now the weather has turned a bit nasty, I don't know what we'll do as he loves outdoors!

    Jungle mum, I will try giving him an early lunch, and I think I have done this on a couple of occasions and he slept for longer on a full tummy......

    Bella, he is getting plenty of sleep during the night, I actually thought maybe that's why he doesn't think he needs any during the day but he does need it as the few times he went without it he was so overtired I struggled to get him to sleep at night. A few times on the days of no sleep he's fallen asleep in the late afternoon and then he'll sleep for an hour or so and then wakes up all grumpy cos he's still tired, and then it's dinner bath and bed by around 9ish. That for me is way too late as I don't get any 'me' time cos he's up late! Just doing my head in

    Thanks again ladies, I will firstly try the early lunch and stretching out his late morning nap as with one big 2 hour nap he seems happy, but it's just getting him to sleep for at least 2 hours is the trick! I'll then do a quiet time at around 4, I'll ready him some books etc (which he only wants to slam shut and throw on the floor, nice!).

    Just a quick update for yesterday....

    Got up at 7.30, fell asleep at 11, woke up at 12, had lunch, got the tired signs going at around 3, tried to put him down to no avail, fell asleep on DF at 5, woke up at 6, had dinner, bath, then went down at 9.20. Luckily I wash watching the loggies and told DF to deal with him!!!!!! But that is not a routine I want!!!!!!!!

    B xoxoxo

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    Feb 2008
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    At that age my DD was only having one sleep. There is no way I could get her to slee long if I put her down @ 10:30-11am without lunch. She too would wake up in an hour for lunch. Maybe time to introduce some morning tea and then lunch abit ealier and a sleep in the middle of the day. That way it makes sense yeah? If you devide the day in 2 then he is up for the same amount of time in the morning and the arvo. So for eg.... up at 7am, down at 12pm, sleep for 2 hours, bed at 7pm. So 5 hours up, 2 hours down, 5 hours up. Anyway, just a thought. Hope he sleeps better for you soon

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    Nov 2008
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    DD was still having two decent sleeps at that age but all kids are different At 14 months DD would wake around 7.30 and have breakfast immediately, then play time, then a bottle before her nap around 9.30. Yup, she was happy to go back to bed after 2 hours which amazed me! She'd normally sleep for 2 hours then we'd head out for the day and she'd nap again around 3 for an hour, sometimes earlier.

    We moved to one day sleep early this year so 16/17 months. She normally goes down around 12 for 2-3 hours but I adjust the time she goes down depending on what time she woke or what our plans are for the day. For example we are seeing Dorothy this afternoon and need to leave the house just after 2 so I'll put her down for her nap around 11 and she'll have lunch when she wakes.

    HTH

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    MissB I apologise, I haven't read all the posts. I just want to answre your question quickly - I don't hitnk you're doing anything wrong. Some kids just don't sleep enough. It sucks arse.

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    MissB I apologise, I haven't read all the posts. I just want to answre your question quickly - I don't hitnk you're doing anything wrong. Some kids just don't sleep enough. It sucks arse.
    Couldn't have said it better! And sadly I have one like that

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    Thanks ladies! Really appreciate all your comments, they are very helpful

    MummaMia, I tried what you do with your DD today and what the other lovely mummies suggested.....DS woke up at 7.30, and I stretched his late morning nap till 12, got lunch into him around 11.45 just when he was starting to rub his eyes, then he slept from 12 till 2 pm!!!!! I couldn't believe it. He woke up all happy and then I fed him at 5 pm and then he started crying for no reason (so I thought), he looked pretty red in the face so I checked his temp, 38 degrees, gave him some panadol and he dosed on and off for half an hour, then about 7.30 I gave him his bottle and he just fell asleep, he was just not himself and very clingy. So I think he did get enough sleep today but the temp. threw him and I suspect it's his teeth as his poo is on a runny side and he keeps sticking his little fingers in his mouth. Poor bugger.

    Taurean, I wish my DS loved his sleep like your DD!!!! I looooooooove my sleep but my DF is a '6 hour is enough' person so maybe DS is like daddy?????

    MadB, thanks hun, it does suck arse big time!! Especially as you don't get that decent break during the day for just a bit of 'me' time..

    Miss E, I feel for you too. Maybe they will be excellent sleepers when all the good ones start playing up???? hehehehehehe

    Thanks again everyone

    B xoxox

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    Tha's right B, you blame your husband!