He does pressure me. I signed the piece of paper to get him to let me take her to Brisbane. Because I promised to bring her back. And I did and now he's doing this. I could stay to see her on her birthday. I'm just so overwhelmed. I have all my stuff packed in boxes in his garage (he and his mum packed my stuff) and i don't know whether to go through it and sort out what's going to charity etc, as if I have to stay in Sydney to be able to keep her, then what's the point of going through it all and repacking?

I'm going to suggest through mediation that he move to Brisbane. I can afford it, he can afford it, there is much more places available and he has said how easy it is to transfer uni. I think its the best solution.