My DD1 is 2 years, 8 months and still has a bottle in the middle of the day. Its easier than fighting her over it, she has a cup the rest of the time.

She isn't toilet trained, and I'm not trying until she is ready.

I don't think these "milestones" mean much, if your child isn't ready, then they aren't ready. At the end of the day, its not a big deal if they toilet train at 2 or 3 - by the time they go to school they won't be in a nappy and nobody will ask when they toilet trained.

Toddlers are supposed to test us, and mine do (I have two toddlers at the moment) and I just pick my battles. Cos otherwise I would be screaming at them all bloody day.. LOL