1pj..stop and take a breath ...guess what??? you are not a failure just a normal tired pregnant Mum.

26 months is a full on age. Get her involved in craft, playdough, cooking etc.

Forget the toilet training for the minute. Give it a break for a month and then start slowly. Some children train overnight some take alot longer. They are usually trained in the day time before night time.

Can you go and do the shopping when your DH gets home. Once a week I used to have tea ready so when he walked in the door he fed the girls, got them to bed and I walked out and had a hour or two to myself.

My brother used to come home from school and have a bottle. She will grow out of wanting one, just don't offer it every night, offer it in a cup first.

Re the cot, keep her in there for the time being. Alot of kids are still in cots at her age. Do you have a bed or mattress in her room. If so, get her to have her day sleep/rest there so she is used to the size and openness.