Sounds normal to me! LOL... but that doesn't help does it. I know DD1 was a great toddler until she hit 2. its like she woke up on her birthday and turned into a little prat!!!! She still has her moments, but now that she is only a couple of months off 3, she is much better.
On the other hand, DS and DD2 were/are shocking under 2's - at 18 months she is driving me bloody batty. DS was the same. He improved after he turned 2, so I'm hoping DD2 will be the same.
Just stick with it - consistency is good, but I agree with Mad - pick your battles. I pick a lot less than DH, which causes friction between us sometimes too. So if you are going to drop some battles - let your DH in on the deal too.
It will pass. Drinking wine helps you get through it in the mean time......
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