DS1 will not let DS2 sleep.

EVERY time I put DS2 down for a sleep, DS1 starts screaming and running up and down the hall past his room, or goes in to his room and screams in there.

Its doing my head in, becuase sometimes DS2 is luck to get 40 mins sleep all day long, so the times when he seems ready to self settle, but DS1 doesnt let him make me want to cry. Well OK they do make me cry.

Til now I've had DS1 in daycare 3 days a week even though I'm on maternity leave, as its the only way DS2 gets any chance of sleeping during the day, but thats going down to 2 days a week, and probably one day soon

Its worse as its the only time I get to sped with him one-on-one and he wastes the opportunity, yet when DS2 is awake he does everything he can to draw my focus away from him.

I cant do anything during the day at all most days if they are both home, so then I get DH coming home in a crappy mood because "youve done nothing all day" or "all i do is clean up after you"