I saw the MCHN today who said that DS should have developed the pincer grip by his age (ie. able to pick up a small object between his thumb & forefinger). So tonight I gave him some sultanas & he doesn't use the pincer grip - he uses his middle finger as well (ie. 3 fingers instead of 2).

I just assumed he would be able to do it - so I didn't ask her what to do if he couldn't! Is there anything I should be doing to help him develop this? (feed him lots of sultanas?? )