Hi there

I got Julia involved in the process of changing nappies, grabbing things for the baby etc which is loved doing. Also made sure she had something to do while I was feeding Tara. Also having snacks available is a good idea, make sure you put them near the toddler beforehand and they have them while you are feeding the baby. Reading a book to the toddler at the same timeas feeding sometimes works. Mind you I did revert to the TV too. Also Alioops idea of noisy and quiet toys are great. I also had a box that just came out while I was feeding the baby, which had craft, quiet toys etc. I also assured Julia if she was good while mummy was feeding the baby when the baby went to bed, we would have special time together just us.

Its not easy! definately challenging!