Awww Mel it is scary introducing a new pet. I think you are doing great. One thing that will create a consistent environment in your home is training. I can't say enough about it. If your dog knows what is expected of him at all times, he will behave that way. Most dogs aim to please, and they are happier knowing what is expected of them. I often have done training with our dogs while Matilda is having a tantrum with DH home. I step aside to train the dogs so they understand what I want them to do when a tantrum is going on. Everytime Matilda goes through a new developmental stage, I start doing 3 one minute training sessions a day of Sit, Stay, Come, Drop, etc etc so the dogs learn to focus on me rather than what Matilda is going through and understand that I will let them know what to do. Our dogs spend time inside so I feel its important for them to know what I want them to do.

With this new dog, make sure you have Jacob higher on the "pack order" than the dog at all times. ie... Jacob should always eat first, he should always go through the door or fence first, and he should always be at a higher level than the dog. So if the dog is inclined to sit on top the lounge, make sure Jacob is higher at all times. These things may not seem important to us as humans, but they are mega important in the doggy world. If he understands your expectations of him & his place in the family unit from the start, he will be more relaxed in the environment & it will make everyone more comfortable. I'm sure this dog & Jacob pick up on your concerns, so if you act on those & prepare everyone with training, then you will all live happier together ykwim?


Any more questions feel free to ask!!! I will endeavour to do my best! Have a look at some information out by Ian Dunbar. He is an amazing behaviouralist/trainer who has some really great books out for new puppy owners which will help with new dogs too.