thanks for that, the day i posted she hasn waking up at sometimes round 11pm crying for me and manages to go back to sleep but every morning from bout 3am she hasn't stopped crying and comes into our bed and sleeps. She always wants the door open and told us there was a pink spot on the ceiling and she though it was a scary face so we bought spme glow in the dark star stickers to cover it abnd take the attnetion off which worked but still at 5am thismorning she jumped into bed with me again. Hopefully it doesn't go on much longer, I am just worried she is now going to get used to the idea of sleeping in our bed. Thanks for your advice!