I tend to buy a small token gift for Josh if i am out shopping and i see that he likes something. Being an early childhood teacher i try to buy education things such as books, flashcards or puppets or maybe a bright coloured toy that Josh liked. If we have the opportunity to give to our kids things why hold back?especially if it gives them are start in life. At the end of the day it is how you teach them to look after thier toys and accept them isnt it?