OOOH YES Manners... Indah says peas, so cute & Tank coo...

My girlfriend i sthe totall opposite her kids spit inside, punch, kick, bite take a piece of food & walk throughout the house eating, spitting & spilling it everywhere, they leave half eaten food & cups of drink all over the place...

They do use the manner words & are not allowed to say 'bum'... It is toosh & not to be anything else!

Indah taps on her bum & says bum, bum, bum!!!
My girlfriend tells me off for letting her use such a word... I just look at her in disbelief as her kids have no idea how to sit down eat & put dishes in sink etc they are 9 & 7!!!!

I hate food in bedrooms & so do not allow any child to take food out of our lounge/kitchen area unless it's outside, I also ask them to either sit up at the table or they can sit at the lounge coffee table...

People all parent differently & I have never once said to her "your kids are pigs!" But I dont let them take food into the bedrooms...