Oh, of course! I'm sure that's got something to do with it. I think it's just more the implication that Aurelia's communication needs to be silenced somehow that makes me feel uncomfortable, if you know what I mean. It's also really difficult to explain to people sometimes that when they interact with your child in certain ways, you feel that it sets a dangerous precedent for the future - especially when it's a parent-in-law, and you're not sure whether it's something that is easier to hear from their son, rather than their daughter-in-law.