thread: Leaving a toddler in the bath

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  1. #1
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    Aug 2007
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    i think Miss B was about 15months!

    and it was only for a few seconds at a time (and yes i know thats all it takes), while i cleaned up dinner! but i always had her talking to me when i was out of the room so i could here her!

    and we just drilled in her head not to stand up in the bath and when she did once, sorry to say she got a smack and has never done it again! she learnt her lesson!

  2. #2
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    May 2008
    ...where jumping on the bed is mandatory!
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    in both houses we have lived in with dd1 her bed room has been right next to the bathroom. first house we didnt have a bath, only a shower but she would go in there on her own from about 15/18 months while i got her pjs ready. same at this house. she is neaarly 3. i will leave her for a minute or two...but we sing a song while i go to the other room etc. and she dosnt stand up in the bath. saying that, she did slip once and iheard the water splash and the singing stopped,she was ok and had just slipped backwards some how, but it certainly made me more carful. with something so precious you can never be too carful!

  3. #3
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    Jun 2007
    Dandenong Ranges, Melbourne.
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    my kids are 3yo and 2yo and i still watch them the whole time they're in the bath. i have ran out to get a towel before, but i sit in the bathroom with them the whole time.
    Last edited by Ginger; June 2nd, 2011 at 05:01 PM.

  4. #4
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    Mar 2009
    Soon to be sunny BRISVEGAS!!!!!
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    I have been leaving dd in while I get her pjs ready etc and I hear her playing etc but my dh feels really strongly that I shouldn't. I have told him if he had the amount of stuff to do he would have to make shortcuts here and there, and honestly I wouldn't just stick her in and walk away.. Anyway thanks

  5. #5
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    Feb 2006
    NSW Central Coast
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    DD and DS1 bathe together and they have been left alone for a few mins at a time since DS1 was about 2, so DD would have been 3-3 1/2. I would maybe clear the table, or get their clothes. I will now leave them for about 10ish mins while I do the kitchen or dress DS2 from his bath. I can always hear them nattering away together and make them call to me if they're too quiet. They're now nearly 3 and 4.

  6. #6
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    Dec 2007
    Sunny Qld
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    I leave all 3 big ones in the bath and have for awhile.

    If there is whinging its good. If the whinging and fighting stop then we go in to see what the problem is lol

    I trust DS to dob in his sisters if they stand up.

  7. #7
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    Dec 2007
    Sunny Qld
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    Double post

  8. #8
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    Feb 2008
    Country Victoria
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    My DD doesnt like me being in the bathroom with her anymore lol. I think its abit of her chillout time...

    I put her in and tend to do things around that end of the house so I can look in on her every couple of minutes. Shes huge on talking to herself, so I dont worry too much when I can hear her talking to her face washer etc lol

    So probably left her alone abit more in the past couple months. Shes now 2 years 8 months.

  9. #9
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    Apr 2006
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    I leave DS (3.5) and DD (21 months) in the bath together for 5-10 minutes at a time. I am usually clearing up the dining room which is right across the hall, door is open and I can hear them. I have been doing this for a few months now.

  10. #10
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    Jan 2006
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    I can't remember, but it's been awhile. Maybe 18 months? One of us is always nearby, so if he goes quiet we can check on him right away.

  11. #11
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2007
    Perth
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    I leave my 3.5 yr old, but I am always also nearby tidying up etc. She constantly chats away to herself in there, so I am always listening out for that. If she goes quiet I yell out 'are you ok in there' and get back a 'yes mum' hehe. But I never left her before 2.5 yrs.