Leasha - Z doesnt have the slightest interest in anything cuddly or a security thing so to speak - I also like to think it is because he is secure in our family, and doesnt need it

He has just stared child care 4 weeks ago 2 x days a week and I really um'd and ah'd about forcing a teddy on him to take to bed in prep for it. But I didn't. yes he cried not the first few times I left because he was probably wondering where has mum gone LOL - then cried for a couple of morning, but then last week just frowned and then the carers distracted him - we waved bye bye and no tears - so I bawled on the bus because he should CRY! Can't win hey

It'll come - wait until she is my DD's age and she has to decide which beanie kids or teddies or Pony's to take to the shops with us sheesh ..... she has never had a favourite either ..