Further to the "coke in sippy cup" thread, I am amazed at how often Jack is offered lollies by other people. Everyone from the GP to the hairdresser have offered Jack a lollypop or jelly bean or similar when he has been well behaved or needed some encouragement to sit still etc. As I don't want Jack to eat these things routinely (and luckily he shows no interest in them anyway), I politely decline. But it annoys me that people think this is appropriate. Other times he has been given a sticker which I much prefer. Am I unusual in this??