Not that Tori is old enough for this yet, but I think that it is unreasonable that people think they should have to bribe children to get them to do what is expected. I don't even keep a "lolly jar" in my classroom as I don't believe in that sort of reward- occasionally I will bring in lollies as an extra special treat for something, but it is only a one off thing. I would rather reward children with other things, such a s praise, an itnerest activity etc.