i think you should just take the bows off the girly headbands or you could cut a fringe like froddo baggins LOL. my husband has froddo hair and my 7 month old is heading that way, so it's good to know some suggestions. i'm more into the shaggy hair, my nephew had gorgeous blond ringlets at the back and the next time i see him he's got the short back and sides look, i'm mourning his hair and feel sorry for the litle bugger LOL