Big hugs Sez You are doing a great job and that woman should be (metaphorically) shot!!! In my current state of sleep deprivation I probably would have told her she obviously is out of date with her information (with regard to solids) and ask her about her qualifications for breastfeeding and her experience in the management of an infant with a high palate!!! But that is just me I am FAR more subtle when I have enough sleep