My 2y.o DS is a milk junkie and a fussy eater. He refuses a lot of what I offer and holds out for milk. I know I'm perpetuating the problem by giving him bottles on demand all night long...... but I am SO tired and sore. can't sit and pat him for hours.

how do I break this habit quickly and effectively without leaving him to cry or being up half the night? he won't accept a dummy or water. so far I've come to the conclusion that it doesn't matter if he has a bowl of cereal and yoghurt for dinner - he MUST go to bed full as a goog.... or the milkfest will never stop. then he wakes full and won't eat much all day. argh.

Add a newborn to the mix in a few weeks and I am ready to lose my **** completely!