Yep. You described my ds perfectly. Hes just turned 4 and is finally starting to improve. (Not what you want to hear I know)
Exactly what I was going to post. I tried everything I could read. Swimming lessons were so hard I thought about giving up. I hated going out in public with him, he was that hard work.
I have despaired about my DS, but now he seems to be re-emerging.
huge