Hugs to you... I know exactly what you are going through... My 2.5yr old seems to be the loudest when I am putting my 4.5 month old to bed. As you said you know you aren't supposed to yell back at them when they are being terrors but I will be honest, I can't help myself I get sooooo ANGRY and I just don't know what else to do. So you are certainly not alone.

The thing that I find that works if you can handle the yelling and protesting is just ignorning them when they are being like that. I find the more that I protest against him the worse he gets.

I have tried the naughty corner, sending to bedroom, taking things off him and he just doesn't care.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE...

Good Luck xxoo