Thanks ladies but I've tried both the pram and the sling and she hates both! Unfortunately we don't have a car so there's no other options apart from carrying her in my arms which she's just too heavy to do for long! I don't think it's the pram that's the problem as I've tried getting her used to it by sitting her in it at home and she's fine. But as soon as we're out the front door the tears start coming. I also talk to her while we're out so she knows I'm there but that doesn't work either. Not sure what else to do!