I have no advice but had to offer a hug Your poor DH, he must be feeling very unloved and rejected. I know DS isn't as old as your DD (he is 12 months), but he is the same. If I am holding him and try to pass him to DP, he will start whining and lean as far back away from DP as possible. When DP takes him, he will often just start crying and wanting me. I can't do anything without him! I'm also the only one who can settle him and put him to sleep DP is also a loving doting father. Lets hope it's just a phase xox