ooops I missed all those other replies.

lol at the Duct tape - I think the thought has crossed DH's mind and ditto at the boys schools - even the male teachers seem to be forever 'adjusting'. I'd like to see their faces if i started 'adjusting' various parts of my anatomy.

Tinks - yes Miss A is very sensitive to soaps so we only have bicarb in the bath and an organic/soap free wash but I might switch back to just bicarb and see if that helps.

Sneakysparkle - will see how we go with that one - it might work

Thanks again for all your suggestions. it's nice to pop in here again. You are all so very helpful!!!! especially with the stuff I daren't ask in public lol