Thanks everyone, seems like it might be fairly normal then!

We don't give them snacks after about 3.30/4.00 because we eat early, at about 5.30ish. Then it's the bath, books and bed routine. Between 6.30 and 7.30 they are in bed and asleep. They do eat all day, particularly DD who is a mega grazer. I guess in the grand scheme she is eating well. It's just that she won't eat veggies, the only veggies she will eat is raw carrot, occaisionally lettuce and potato. I make potato and pumpkin or sweet potato mash and she will eat that. I sneak grated veggies into everything I can, like grated carrots, zuccihni, mushies, pumpkin, onions...anything I can grate really!! Salads are very unpopular inour house, lol! Except if it's my potato salads with tuna, which DD will eat (also has grated carrot and corn niblets in it). I make sure I put in bits they can see too though so that they can get to know what tastes like what. I hate that I'm making a nice meal every night and having to throw half of it out because they just don't eat. I feel so 'Why bother' most nights. Especially when DH is on arvo/night shift, which is half of the time he's working. And especially if it's something I know they just won't even try, like a baked dinner.

Kris, thanks for that recipe I will have to give it a try!