I get that I guess I'm just understanding of Gender Disappointment even though I would have given a right arm to have a baby regardless of gender... because I have watched my friends suffer with it and it is suffering IMO. Because it can cause all sorts of guilty feelings too...

But our own experiences make us who we are and why we feel that way... And please know that I mean none of this in a bad way Relle just trying to explain it from a different perspective. I hope thats ok! And sorry to thread crash Mel!

*hugs*
Cailin