We have never DTD while DD was co-sleeping and sleeping in our room. She was for 18 months. We usually just DTD around the house. We were both just too uncomfortable with her being right there...
When DD was a newborn we had her in her bassinet next to the bed but yes a grumbly baby is such a mood killer. We DTD once with her in our bed and that was awkward so we havent since. And since shes been sleeping in our bed lately we rarely to never get the chance so we wait until shes asleep during the day lol
And sounds like your recovering well. I only bled for 2 weeks after DD but didnt DTD until 5 weeks after i was too scared because i tore quite bad.
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