Why do all the mchn do that?? Surely they should be taught that each bubba will do things their own way. Grr - Life would be so much less stressful in the early days for 1st time mums if they just explained that. Makes me cross because you end up doubting yourself when you shouldn't.
I found as well the more I doubted myself the more I would talk to people - friends and family - for their opinon and would end up with the worst advice ever....