Gemma, my DH is/will be a SAHD too! They're a rare breed, huh?

I reckon you are on the right track, if for no other reason than WHY MAKE LIFE HARD FOR YOURSELF? Honestly, if most adults had a choice between a nice piece of belgian chocolate or an apple, they would choose the chocolate, right? But we eat the apple cause we know it is good for us. Now they way I see it, if Flynn doesn't KNOW there are such things as chips and custard and lollies, he isn't going to ask for them!