I try to keep Gabby's diet balanced as much as possible (tho it's hard because she can be fussy with certain foods).
I try to give a serve of veges, fruit, dairy and carbs a day (usually more than 1 but I try to offer her at least one of each food group). She'll have a biscuit or 2 (just plain ones... nothing too fancy), a muesli bar or some crackers as snacks. She loves those puff rice cracker snack things. Don't know what they are called.
She rarely has chocolate and only drinks water and milk. She's not a big fan of fruit juice or cordial. She'll sip them but won't drink them like she drinks water.
We had party food at playgroup today. Gab had some banana but mainly she preferred the biscuits and cake. It's the only time we bring party food to playgroup (Christmas breakup) and the kids loved it. I don't see the harm and it helps to teach them how to share and only take 1 thing at a time (tho we do the same with our fruit every other week).