Please recommend me a book....or anything!

[BellyBelly]

Those above two posts/suggestions are great too

[Calluna]

Not a book rec, but something I have found to be extremely effective is labelling his feelings. When I can see he's about to lose it Ill ask him if he's angry/sad because of x. He almost always calms right down and nods or says yes. I offer him a cuddle and explain again why x happened.

Usually feeling heard is all it takes to diffuse the situation.

[Santosha]

Thoroughly agree with the above book reccomndations - I loved Pantly and Sunderland

Also worth considering... http://fedup.com.au/factsheets/sympt...s/head-banging


Big hugs, deep breaths and happy reading. xox

[crumpet]

thanks everyone!

will look into all of those suggestions!